11. Dwell on the Past

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11. Dwell on the Past

You can never let it go. Every day, you fixate on the slights and mistakes. You hold grudges, obsessing over those who've ignored, disappointed, or hurt you. Filled with regret, you can never forgive and start fresh. Instead, you allow your demons to distract and consume you. In the end, the past is just another excuse to wallow in self-pity and avoid facing your flaws and fallacies.